Love is Enough

Love is Enough!

by Ronald Steven on Wednesday, December 17, 2008 at 10:00pm

LOVE IS ENOUGH !

Love asks for everything, not just for a little bit, or a whole lot, but for everything...

Love is not judgemental, not blind, love sees clearly, but covers

Love covers everything ...

To grow to love someone wholly is, to be able to open up to each other, to be yourself and express your feelings without fear,

to be willing to get to know and try to understand each other,

to lay down all your worries,

to risk yourself of getting hurt and yet still choose not to be affected of it and move on,

to learn to give but not to expect anything in return (unconditional),

to sacrifice your needs in order for him/her to be happy,

to trust and believe in him/her no matter what,

to choose to be in love when you have problems,

to be brave enough to solve the problems, and then let go and move on,

to learn to totally surrender yourself to each other and have no dignity at all (coz only then, humiliation and sarcasm means nothing anymore).

Because after all, love covers everything. Love does not try to make someone a duplicate of the other,

love accepts someone for what he/she is.

And the force of love itself is able to make you want to be a better person for the other.

Nobody in the world is perfect, but love makes a person perfect to the other when he/she accepts her/him wholly, despite her/his flaws.

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The saddest thing in love is to think that you have something but then you look at the person’s eyes and realize that you have nothing.

But then again, love is risky and love is foolish.

Yet I believe that it is worthed to risk everything for love, because generally, love is the greatest thing that ever happened in this world.

In fact, it is because of love that this world is created.

If you have Love, it will be enough ... love is enough

God know the best

i'm sick
yet broken
you throw salt into my wound
tear down my heart
you make it hard for me

But God want me to do good things for
the one that make me sick, make me insane.
"How come?" that's what the world asked me

I cry for many times
I fall from the highest cliff
yet He still want me to forgive
And i really don't know anything about this
I'm just hanging on His words in the Bible

"Jesus loves me this i know,
for the Bible tells me so
little ones to Him belong
they are weak but He's strong
Yes, Jesus loves me
Yes, Jesus loves me
Yes, Jesus loves me
the Bible tells me so"

I keep on my faith,
I'll stand for it till the end
That Jesus never let me down
never left me behind
never leave me alone
That HE is so in love with me
and He want only the best for me
eventhough it's so damn hard
but yes, i believe God's know the best.

My Prayer :)

Lord,
I pray for a man, that will be a part of my life
A man that really loves YOU more than everything
A man that will put me in the second place of his heart
A man that lives not for himself but for YOU
The most important is
I want a heart that really loves and thirsty of YOU
And have a desire to be like JESUS

And he must know for whom and for what he lives
So his life is not useless
Someone that has a wise heart
Not only a smart brain
A man that not only loves me but also respect me
A man that not only adore me
But can warn me when I am wrong
A man that loves me not because of my beauty
but my heart
A man that can be my best friend
in every time and situation
A man that make me feel like a woman
when I am beside him

I do not ask for a perfect man
But I ask for an imperfect man

A man that needs my support for his strength
A man that needs my prayer for his life
A man that needs my smile to cover his sadness
A man that needs my love so he feels being loved
A man that needs me to make his life beautiful

And I also ask
Make me be a woman that can make him proud
Give me a heart that really loves YOU
So I can love him with Your Love
Not love him with my love
Give me Your gentle spirit
So my beauty doesn't come from my outside
but come from YOU

Give me Your hands
That I always be able to pray for him
Give me Your eyes
So I can see many good things in him
and not the bad one
Give me Your mouth
that is filled with Your words
of wisdom and encouragement
So I can support him everyday
Give me Your lips
And I will smile at him every morning

And I want that when we finally meet
Both of us can say
How great Thou Art
I know that You want us to meet at the right time
And You will make everything beautiful in Your time
Amen

-Grace Suryani-

Conservative

Okayy, kalo menurut dictionary.com,
arti conservative adalah
traditional in style or manner; avoiding novelty or showiness
Yakk! ngerti kan yah?

Baru-baru ini gue menyadari sesuatu (lagi-lagi)
Ternyata gue lebih suka cara konservative
dalam hal pe-de-ka-te. HAHA.
Nyadarnya sih terjadi begitu aja..
Soalnya jaman sekarang yang canggih gini
semua orang pedekate pake alat elektronik.
Contoh paling gampang : HP, FB, MSN. haha.
sama BBM kalo dia punya BB.

Ini diaa nih.
Gue baru nyadar kalo sebenernya gue ga suka cara ini.
Gue lebih suka cara konservative.
Kayak jamannya nenek kakek kita dulu.
Kalo mau pedekate, yaa ketemuan!

Pertanyaannya, kenapa harus ketemuan?
Soalnya, orang itu keliatan aslinya pas ketemu.
Coba kalo lagi smsan, gue bisa aja bilang "haha"
tapi sebenernya lagi kesel. yaa kan?
Sms sama ketemu tuh bisa beda.
Soalnya ga kontak langsung tatap muka.

Bukannya gue bilang smsan atau semacamnya itu
ga baik buat pedekate sihh..
lebih bagus kalo pake cara konservative itu.
Dari ketemu langsung, lu bisa tau gimana dia.
Sifatnya kan bisa keliatan dari cara ngomong.
Juga dari tindakannya.

Nah, menurut gue, fungsi sms dkk itu
buat pengenalan lebih jauhh..
Soalnya ga mungkin bisa ketemu tiap hari juga kan?
Atau misalnya tiba" aja kangen jadi pengen ngobrol.
Intinya, itu cuma semacam apa yaa..
Hmm, alat bantu gitu dehh.
Tapi bukan alat utama, dia cuma punya fungsi pendukung. haha

So, gue berasa aneh aja kalo liat orang
yang tadinya-ga-kenal-ga-pernah-ketemu
lalu karena smsan jadi deket. HAHA!
Big NO NO deh!
Bagi gue itu aneh.
Kecuali kondisinya kayak yang tadi gue bilang,
emang sebenernya deket kalo ketemu,
atau dia mencoba mendekati saat bertemu,
yaudahh gapapa..

Makanya wajar bangett jaman gini tuh banyak yang pacaran,
tapi ngasal banget. hihi.
Pacaran karena dikenalin, smsan, lalu jadian.
Terus ketemuan, berantem, sms, putus!
CIHUYYY sekali. haha.
Ga aneh banyak orang yang putus nyambung terus
sampe dibikin lagu sama BBB.

Kalo masi kecil, terus mainannya kayak gitu yaa wajar deh.
Namanya juga masih kecil .
Tapi, kalo udah gede masih kayak gitu..
Ya malu dongg.

Cari relationship yang berkualitas.
Jangan yang asal, jangan yang main".
Tujuan utama punya pasangan kan emang buat merit.
Jadi kalo ngasal dari cara cari dan pedekatenya yaa
susah juga dong.
So, lu termasuk kategori konservative yang berkualitas,
atau yang modern asal-asalan?
You choose :)
Oh iya satu lagii! dalam hal ini, cowok yang berperan lebih gede.
Ayoo dekati dengan langsung!
jangan cuma berani lewat sms :p haha
Gud luck!

Realize

Take time to realize,
That your warmth is. Crashing down on in.
Take time to realize,
That I am on your side
Didn't I, Didn't I tell you..

Eaa, itu sih namanya lagunya realize dari colbie caillat..haha
Tapi yaa itulah judul post g kali ini.
Kenapa?
Simple ajah, karena g baru realize sesuatu.

Gue baru realize kalau selama ini gue wasting time. Banget.
Bayangin ajah, gue seharian bisa cuma nonton film korea.
Atau cuma duduk depan komputer dan online seharian.

Wasting time bangettt.. haha.

Tapi kemaren ini, gara-gara film BBF yang gue tonton
*yeahgueteladbangetnontonnya*
udah abis, jadinya gue ga ada kerjaan deh :p

Dan dalam keheningan ga ada kerjaan itulah,
gue baru mikirin soal ini..
Soal gimana waktu gue terbuang percuma dan ga ada hasilnya.
Gue liat, di rumah ada banyak buku-buku motivasi
atau buku psikologi yang bagus punya nyokap..
Gue juga liat violin yang selalu nganggur
karena ga pernah gue pake buat latihan.
Di hari minggu pun, lagi-lagi cuma gue yang paling ga bisa
main waktu latihan gabungan.

Semua ini bikin gue bener-bener mikir, dan sadar..
Kalo gue ga boleh terus-terusan wasting time.
Gue udah dewasa, dah gede.
Mau sampe kapan melakukan hal yang no use gitu?
Mau sampe kapan baca novel yang ga ada isinya?
Ini semua bikin gue mutusin, kalo gue HARUS berubah.

Gue berjanji sama diri gue sendiri buat ga sia-siain waktu.
Gue janji buat mulai baca-baca buku yang 'berbobot'
Gue janji buat mulai latian violin setiap hari,
seengaknya sebentar aja.
Karena gue tau dan sadaaaaaaar bangetngetngetnget,
kalo gue bisa maen violin sekarang,
bisa ada buku-buku bagus bukan karena gue mampu atau gimana.
Bukan karena gue bakat, itu juga enggak.

Ini semua cuma karena Mercy from my God :)
Dia yang sediain ini semua buat gue
supaya gue bisa terus bertumbuh.
Dia pengen gue kembangin talenta gue dan belajar.
Thanks to Him, gue bisa punya apa yang gue punya sekarang.

Dannnn, buat semua yang baca post ini..
Gue harap kalian dapet sesuatu yaa setelah ini.
Yaaa, siapa tau kalian bakal realize something jugaa..
Yeah i wish..haha.
Thanks for reading this post.
Feel free to leave a comment :D

Jangan kosong !

Haii hai. lama ga ngisi blog ga keurus ini. haha :p
Okeeh..g cuma pengen cerita ajahh..

Jadi tadi itu g abis pulang dari kfc, di mobil hau.
Di sana sebenernya cuma ngobrol biasaa sih..
Tapi g jadi nyadar satu hal.

G nyadar kalo semakin lama koq kayaknya g makin ga tau apa" yaa?

Ini g sadarin setelah berkat Thaza.
Thanks to her, g diingatkan satu hal penting.
G inget kalo kita harus isi otak kita.
Serius deh, maksudnyaa
Otak g selama ini cuma diisi pelajaran dan
berbagai hal tentang sekolah, gereja, dsb.
Tapi ada satu yang kosong : pengetahuan umum.

G diingetin buat kembali sadar diri dan ga sombong.
Karena walaupun bisa dapet rangking, ga berarti u pinter!
Kalau sombong dan ga pernah isi otak lagi,
mau kemampuan secanggih apapun juga Tuhan ga bakal
bikin u pinter.

Kita udah dikasih otak yang canggih, ya bersyukur dehh..
Ga smua orang punya IQ yang oke,
bahkan ada yang IQ nya jongkok, dan autis.
Tapi ga cukup sampe situ ajah.
Talenta yang udah dikasih itu, mesti dikembangin.
Otak itu harus diisi, jangan dibiarin kosong.

Jangan pernah puas dalam belajar.
Seumur hidup kita bakalan terus belajar dan enggak berhenti.
Jangan jadi sombong dan merasa udah cukup,
jadi berhenti.
Kita harus terus ngisi otak dengan hal" yang berguna.
Dalam hidup di masyarakat itu bakal berguna.
Bukan pelajaran yang ada disekolah yg guna. haha

Berita baiknyaa..
Di rumah g ada lumayan banyak buku.
Kata orang, buku itu jendela dunia. Isinya pengetahuan.
Tapiii, g malas membaca buku yang berat" --"
buku yang "berisi" malah jarang g sentuh.
Padahal kalo uda ketemu komik sama novel,
wahh jangan harap bisa ajak g ngomong deh! haha
Tanya sama yang udah pernah jadi korban dikacangin sama g.
Bisa bohwat ngajak ngomong pas g lagi baca. hehe.

yaah in the end, g cuma mau bilanggg
Tengkiuuu buat Thaza yang ingetin g, mgkin u ga nyadar. haha
dan, jangan pernah biarin otak kosong.
Isi otakk, tentunya dengan sesuatu yang berguna :)
dan jangan pernah merasa cukup untuk berenti belajar,
untuk merasa kalo udah pinter :p

welcome to my life!

Do you ever feel like breaking down?
Do you ever feel out of place?
Like somehow you just don't belong
And no one understands you
Do you ever wanna runaway?
Do you lock yourself in your room?
With the radio on turned up so loud
That no one hears you screaming


No you don't know what it's like
When nothing feels all right
You don't know what it's like
To be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life

Do you wanna be somebody else?
Are you sick of feeling so left out?
Are you desperate to find something more?
Before your life is over
Are you stuck inside a world you hate?
Are you sick of everyone around?
With their big fake smiles and stupid lies
While deep inside you're bleeding

No you don't know what it's like
When nothing feels all right
You don't know what it's like
To be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life

No one ever lied straight to your face
No one ever stabbed you in the back
You might think I'm happy but I'm not gonna be okay
Everybody always gave you what you wanted
Never had to work it was always there
You don't know what it's like, what it's like

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like (what it's like)

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life